Love Songs


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  1. Paula KerbyJune 27, 2025 at 2:28 PM

    Love love love this, Cassie! Thank you for your vulnerability and for the throwbacks (:

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  2. Jamie LanhamJune 30, 2025 at 8:19 AM

    “ I didn’t listen to much music at this time, and the songs that are on my playlists I don’t remember putting there.”
    As someone who has categorized my life in songs as well, the memories that are silent haunt me the most. Like my brain was too focused on survival to hear the background music. I felt the heaviness in my heart with this line.”

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  3. Hannah HarsheJune 30, 2025 at 12:04 PM

    the format, the pictures, the personal, vulnerable, raw narrative weaved into songs we can all hear in our heads. obsessed with everything about this.

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